John and Kelly Halligan lost their thirteen year old son, Ryan, to suicide on October 7, 2003.
At the time of his death, Ryan was a student at a middle school in
Essex Junction, Vermont. After Ryan’s death, it was revealed that
he was ridiculed and humiliated by peers at school and on-line.
Ryan father writes: “A few days after his funeral I logged on to his AOL
IM account because that was the one place he spent most of his time
during the last few months. I logged on to see if there were any clues
to his final action. It was in that safe world of being somewhat
anonymous that several of his classmates told me of the bullying and
cyber bullying that took place during the months that led up to his
suicide. The boy that had bullied him since 5th grade and briefly
befriended Ryan after the brawl was the main culprit. My son the
comedian told his new friend something embarrassing and funny that
happened once and the friend (bully) ran with the new information that
Ryan had something done to him and therefore Ryan must be gay. The rumor
and taunting continued beyond that school day … well into the night and
during the summer of 2003.”
Ryan’s father, John, devotes his time to touring the United States and
Canada, meeting with young people and promoting the need for more
education and prevention of bullying, cyber bullying and teen suicide. He
has also established a
website in his son’s memory.